Southern Man’s Guide to the Best Handguns for Personal Protection

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Southern Man’s Guide to the Best Handguns for Personal Protection

Is it time to buy your first handgun? What weapons are the best to carry for personal defense? With the recent sniper shootings in Dallas, sales of handguns will increase as men and women seek to find the best options for personal protection. Here are a few to consider if you’re eyeing a purchase. Thanks for for this article.

The most frequently asked question I get asked is “what do you think is the best gun for personal defense?”

If you ask 10 different gun owners this same question, you may get 10 different answers. However, if you ask 10 people who are experienced personal defense firearms instructors, the answers should be very similar.

MOST of us (experienced defensive shooting instructors) agree that the modern, polymer framed, 9mm, high capacity (double stack), striker-fired semi-auto, with no external manual safeties, is the best type of handgun for concealed carry.

While I don’t believe the 9mm is the best round only for it’s stopping power, it’s overall effectiveness is good, it is easily available and costs less to practice with. Please note that as far as effectiveness, I don’t believe it matters as much what caliber you carry as it does design. (Between the most common defensive calibers … .380, .38sp, 9mm, .40, and .45 – there is little difference according to most reliable studies.)

It is impossible for one firearm to be the best in all of those categories. Choose your compromises carefully and keep in mind the priorities suggested here.

Reliability (the gun’s ability to function correctly 100% of the time) comes from knowing what other people are using and training with in the field, finding out what is working, and what breaks in real life situations. Thousands of rounds in harsh environments and abuse should not cause malfunctions on a personal defense firearm. If the gun isn’t 100% reliable in these conditions it should not be a consideration.

Shootability (YOUR ability to control and shoot the gun well) will need to be tested with the firearm in your hand and live ammunition in the gun at a range. Can you load and manipulate the controls? A good instructor knows what to look for to help you here, but this is NOT just a matter of what feels good in your hand at a store

[related video]. That may seem important, but most people I know that have purchased their first firearm at the recommendation of a gun store salesperson or a friend that tells you they “have the perfect gun for you”, have been painfully disappointed once they are at the range trying to use it in demanding situations.

A simple design without external manual safeties removes many points of failure when it comes to how well you can shoot a gun in a critical situation. Some people believe that you can train yourself to be able to do this, but the truth is, in a stressful situation, you will lose the fine motor skills that are usually needed to flip a safety lever and most people can not possibly train to overcome that.

Carryability is your ability to conceal the firearm in a way that you can get comfortable enough with that you will carry it every day. The weight of a polymer framed gun in 9mm means more capacity in a smaller size.

Power and capacity have a direct effect on carryability. A rifle (with it’s devastating firepower and accuracy) would be the best carry gun if it weren’t so big, but we have to balance capacity with the ability to carry it. Using a pistol to stop a threat usually takes multiple well placed shots (or as we like to call it, “a volley of fire”). If we knew in advance just how many bullets we would need that would be great, but having ‘just enough’ ammo for every probable situation is impossible to predict. I think you would agree that more is always better than not enough (since your life may depend on it), but if your gun is so large that you won’t carry it, every day, then I would rather see you carry something rather than nothing.

Cost of a new, quality personal defense pistol will be about $500 plus holster, ammunition, training time and regular practice. The nice thing about these guns is they will last you a long time and usually don’t cost much to maintain other than a regular cleaning.

My personal recommendations

#1 – The best gun for every day concealed carry (for most people) would be the Glock 19 ($500).

#2 – The Smith & Wesson M&P 9 is a close second ($450).

Both of these guns are extremely reliable, very shootable, concealable, have a great balancing of power, recoil and capacity, and great defensive accuracy. They are also what I would say are the easiest for any shooter to learn to shoot very well.

Glock is my first choice for several reasons;

  • They invented this type of firearm (1982) and that is what I have personally carried for over 17 years (in .40 S&W for a long time, and now in 9mm).
  • It has never let me down and it has the longest running good reputation of any firearm in it’s class for reliability.
  • It’s simpler design is easy to master, it shoots well for most people, and it is usually less expensive to buy and outfit than others similar to it.
  • Glock enjoys a commanding 65% of the market share of handguns for United States law enforcement agencies as well as supplying numerous national armed forces and security agencies worldwide.
  • Because they are more common, you can also find more equipment made for them, for less money.

Smith & Wesson did well to copy Glock’s proven design when it produced it’s first striker fired pistol (so much so that they ended up having to pay Glock, which may be why they are that much more expensive) and eventually (but not until 2005) improved their design in the M&P to make it very reliable and shootable (with the exception of the Bodyguard – which is NOT a striker fired model & NOT available without a safety – but to help it’s poor sales S&W slapped the M&P name on it in 2014).

The M&P line has a slightly different grip shape. It’s rare, but I have found that some people just don’t feel like they have the same natural point of aim on a Glock as they do on the M&P (though today you can usually compensate for that with grip adjustment).

Another thing I have found that S&W did was to add options for things that I do not believe belong in a self defense pistol; magazine disconnect (makes the gun useless if the magazine is out) and manual external safeties. Make sure if you go with M&P you stay away from these options.

Both of these firearms have a good capacity (the double stack models), adjustable grip sizes, ambidextrous controls, and in 9mm, anyone can learn to shoot them well and conceal them without too much trouble.

Now, when I say “without too much trouble” I don’t mean it will be the easiest gun to conceal, or that it will be the most comfortable to carry. But, I feel that with a little practice, and some help finding the right gear, it is worth the effort in the return you get in shootability, power, and capacity.

Every other gun on this list is a compromise in shootability, power, and capacity, in exchange for easier carryability.

If the Glock 19 or M&P 9 are too big for you, they have smaller versions in the Glock 26 or M&P 9c (both are slightly smaller versions of the above models for about the same price). The negatives with these are that they have a lower capacity and the recoil is slightly heavier, but they are both still very shootable.

I would recommend you start with the larger versions for training use, as the controls are 100% the same and most holsters are also interchangeable.

Glock 26

Glock 26

One advantage to these smaller guns would be that you can carry the larger of the series’ magazine as a backup, or even as the primary magazine if higher capacity is preferred (see photo above – Glock 26 with magazine extension along side a larger Glock 19 magazine as spare).

Some people would say that because of the slightly shorter barrel and sight radius that they are not as accurate. However, at common defensive distances, I don’t see any difference.

My current third choice, and my recommendation to people that are not willing to work around concealing the thickness of a double stack Glock or M&P 9, is the Glock 43 or the M&P Shield (the model with no external manual safety).

These single stack 9s are much thinner than the double stack versions but still large enough to shoot and train with and still have similar controls.

The Glock 42 in .380 (under $400) is slightly smaller and slightly less power on your target, but also easier on recoil. This firearm is proving to be very reliable in our classes.

glock 42

Glock 42

Springfield’s XDs 9mm is also very reliable,  but with it’s grip safety (another point of failure) and high barrel center access (leading to more recoil) I think the Glock 43 or M&P Shield is a better option.

With all of the above you should have multiple spare magazines and be prepared to work much harder training – you will need to reload two or three times as often as everyone else.

There are several other guns I recommend for various purposes but consider them to be far less superior;

Ruger’s LCP .380 ($200) is a very popular pocket gun, but it is not as reliable, and very difficult to shoot enough to train with. This is the gun you carry when you can’t carry a gun — everyone should have at least one.

Many women see this little gun and think that will be the perfect match for their smaller hands, but most also find that it is not easy to shoot. It does fit easily in your pocket (make sure you use a safe method of covering the trigger as pictured below).


LCP 380

Unfortunately, this is NOT the preferred striker fired type gun and does not slide lock on the last round. I DO NOT recommend this as a primary carry gun and I don’t recommend it as your only firearm – most people that have shown up to a class with this have not made it through the class with it.

S&W Airweight

Smith & Wesson .38 hammerless revolver

Ruger’s LCR and Smith & Wesson 38 Airweight (pictured above) are reliable revolvers but have even lower capacity and are even harder to reload. They have a very long and heavy trigger pull (try lifting 12 pounds of groceries with your finger) making them very difficult to keep on target and even harder to train with.

There are a lot of other brands out there, but these are currently the best in my opinion. When you go to the gun store you should know what you want before you get there.

New or used?

I recommend a new gun owner purchase their first gun new. While there are a lot of good used guns out there, there are even more unscrupulous dealers that are trying to rid themselves of someone else’s problem. Most of these new guns hold their resale value very well so if you decide you need to get something different, you can always sell it – sometimes for almost what you paid for it. If you find someone selling one of the guns at the top of our list for something well under the normal price you should be suspicious.

This article was written by Dean Craig of

2016-10-17T17:31:20+00:00July 10th, 2016|Lifestyle|Comments Off on Southern Man’s Guide to the Best Handguns for Personal Protection