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A Letter to My Son On His 18th Birthday

2022-01-30T20:54:11-06:00May 24th, 2018|Southern Lifestyle, Sports|

Dear Son, Happy 18th birthday, son! I know you thought this day would never come. While it seemed like an eternity, it went by in a flash. I remember your birth as if it were happening this morning (around 11 a.m. if I'm not mistaken). Tim McGraw's "Something Like That," was playing on the radio as we drove to the hospital. I'll forever think of you each time I hear that song. I remember turning 18 too. It was only a couple of months before I started college. You have your entire senior year of high school ahead of you this year. Similar to your 18th birthday, your senior year is also unique. You may find yourself getting antsy in anticipation of leaving for college, but relax and enjoy the moment. Soak up every second. It's an incredibly special time. You'll often reach back for those memories. Create a treasure chest full of good ones. RELATED: A Letter to My Daughter On Her 18th Birthday Spending some Razorback time with my son, Roan along Dickson Street in Fayetteville. (OneSouthernMan/2018) Turning 18 and graduating High School is exciting. It's a new chapter in your life. It brings great benefits. It also demands more responsibility. You're an adult now – at least as defined by the law. You [...]

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A Letter To My Daughter On Her 18th Birthday

2021-09-16T14:25:40-05:00September 16th, 2021|Southern Lifestyle|

A letter to my daughter on her 18th birthday My dear precious girl, I remember your birth as it happened only hours ago. How time flies. Today you become a legal adult. You can vote, sign contracts, establish credit, and buy a car. Yet to me, you'll always be the shy little girl holding my hand and asking for my help. The ability to freeze time is a gift God gives Dads. RELATED: A Letter to My Son On His 18th Birthday Our family endured generations without pink bows or dresses. Everyone, including the females, joked about not knowing how to handle a little girl. Yet your arrival began an era we longed for.  Somewhere a book exists that says every proper southern girl requires a double name. On a warm summer Sunday with a dozen options written on a small church envelope, your name miraculously appeared. Some have attempted to shorten your lovely given name or choose one over the other. It's your name, and only you can dictate what others call you. Like most females, you arrived on your own terms. Within months you transformed from a little being wrapped in a pink blanket to wearing pink bows in your brown curls. For me, it signaled time would move too quickly.  Everything from seeing you hold your blanket [...]

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Grilling Myths to Help You Master Summertime Cookouts

2016-10-17T17:31:30-05:00May 26th, 2016|Eats & Drinks|

Remember when Uncle Ernie taught you everything he knew about summer grilling? Well, it was probably poor advice. The good folks at Garden & Gun have asked Meathead Goldwyn to debunk five grilling myths. Enjoy. Before you fire up the grill, here are five things you need to know No matter where you live or how rainy it might be, this weekend marks the unofficial start of summer grilling season. And while we’re certainly not trying to criticize your burgers, we have a few choice tips. They come from the myth-busting Meathead Goldwyn, the proprietor of the popular grilling website AmazingRibs.com and the author of the new book Meathead: The Science of Great Barbecue and Grilling. MYTH: You can gauge the temperature of a grill or the doneness of a steak with your hand. Maybe if you work the line at a busy steakhouse. Otherwise, no. Trying to read a grill by holding your hand a few inches over the grate is a dubious technique that delivers burnt or undercooked results more often than not. “Can you imagine using an oven without knowing what the temperature is?” Goldwyn says. And judging a steak’s doneness by comparing it to the piece of skin between your thumb and forefinger? A lot of grillers try it, but it’s even less accurate. “For [...]

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7 Ways to Make Valentine’s Day Special

2024-01-30T13:16:39-06:00January 30th, 2024|Eats & Drinks, Southern Lifestyle|

Most guys dread Valentine's Day. It's not that we don't want to make the day memorable or bestow gifts on that special girl. However, finding that special valentine's gift can be overwhelming. Here are 7 ways to make Valentine's Day Special. Men typically follow the same routine on Valentine's Day: send a dozen roses and a box of dark chocolate in a red, heart-shaped box, followed by dinner at her favorite restaurant. It's not that she won't be pleased with this tried and true formula, but now is a great time to show her your creative side. After all, we've had lots of time to practice since those caveman days of dragging a club! RELATED: Best 30A Restaurants My friends who own restaurants won't be happy with my recommendation. However, the two worst nights to dine out include New Year's Eve and Valentine's Day. In most cases, your choices include sub-par, overpriced, preplanned menus, and the wait staff is continually rushing you so they can have two additional seatings. Ordering flowers for Valentine's Day delivery is never a good idea. Make Valentine's Day special with great wine. This year (2024), Valentine's Day is Wednesday, February 14. The 7-day outlined plan allows you to cover the basics with unique touches. While I can't guarantee the amount of [...]

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A 2022 Valentine’s Day Plan Every Girl Will Love

2024-01-30T12:12:27-06:00February 6th, 2022|Eats & Drinks, Southern Lifestyle|

Let's face it; most guys dread Valentine's Day. It's not that we don't want to make the day memorable or bestow gifts on that special girl. However, knowing what gifts to whoo her with can be overwhelming. Here is a 2022 Valentine's Day plan every girl will love. Most guys follow the same routine on Valentine's Day. A dozen roses, a box of chocolates in a red, heart-shaped box, followed by dinner at her favorite restaurant. It's not that she won't be pleased with this tried and true formula, but now is a great time to show her your creative side. After all, we've had lots of time to practice since those caveman days of dragging a club! Valentine's Day Plans 2021 Some of my friends who own restaurants won't be happy with my recommendation, but I can't think of two worst nights to enjoy a night out at a great restaurant than New Year's Eve or Valentine's Day. Valentines Day is a wonderful time to rekindle romantic relationships. In most cases, your choices are a sub-par, overpriced, preplanned menu, and the wait staff is continually rushing you so they can have two additional seatings. And Ordering flowers for Valentine's Day delivery is never a good idea. RELATED: 8 Things Raymond Reddington's Wardrobe Can Teach Us [...]

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Dad, Daddy, Father: How Southerners Refer to Their ‘Dads’

2021-06-05T10:18:07-05:00June 5th, 2021|Southern Lifestyle|

The South has always been home, and southern dads fill many roles in their children's lives. I’ve heard fathers referred to by several names, yet “Father” isn’t the most common. Depending on where you live and your family history, some say Dad, Daddy, Pop, or Papa. What name do you call the special man in your life? Here is how southerners refer to their dads. My daughter, Mary Morgan and me at Moo Country boutique in Leiper's Fork, TN Each year on the third Sunday of June, we honor the men who conceived, raised us, or in many situations, played an integral role in our childhoods. Definition of Father Let's begin by examining the definition of "Father." According to the Merriam-Webster dictionary, the first meaning is “a male parent,” or “a male animal who has sired an offspring.” But gosh, that sounds so impersonal. Perhaps the most popular use of the term Father is about the Christian God, especially about the Trinity when we say the Father, Son, and the Holy Spirit.  Used as a verb, the term father can define the founder, producer, or author of something. That’s why American’s refer to President George Washington as the “father of our country.” RELATED: A Letter to My Son On His 18th Birthday I'm confident if I researched [...]

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Holiday Gift Ideas for Men

2023-12-01T12:25:26-06:00December 1st, 2023|Fashion, Southern Lifestyle|

Finding the perfect holiday gift for women seems relatively straightforward. There are always the staples - jewelry, clothes, perfume, designer accessories, or items associated with their favorite hobbies. Finding the perfect present for that special guy can be daunting. Here are a few holiday gift ideas for men to please any Southern gentleman. Holiday Gift Ideas Growing up in the South, I fondly recall many beautifully wrapped packages carefully placed under two decorated Christmas trees. In our house, wrapped presents were opened after Christmas Eve dinner. These were presents exchanged between family members and close friends. Santa delivered our most significant and anticipated gifts sometime between 1:00 and 5:30 am on Christmas morning. Santa's gifts, requested through a letter mailed to the North Pole in early December, were arranged neatly beside the fireplace. There, the jolly-ole-fellow knocked down a glass of milk and a few cookies before exiting through a smoldering, smoke-filled fireplace. And for the record, Santa doesn't wrap his gifts. But let's not take on that debate here. Whether you wrap or want to whisper gift ideas in Santa's ear, let's focus on holiday gift-giving for your favorite guy. Bourbon glasses make a wonderful addition to any gentleman's bar. Before assembling this list, I spent several hours reading through a few dozen articles. One [...]

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William Faulkner: On Writing & Drinking in the South

2022-02-22T14:36:36-06:00February 22nd, 2022|Southern Lifestyle|

One of Mississippi's most admired writers, William Faulkner, loved the written word and bourbon. A close look at most great 20th-century novelists and playwrights will reveal lives, for better or worse, well-lubricated with alcohol. Ernest Hemingway, F. Scott Fitzgerald, Truman Capote, Eugene O'Neill, Hunter S. Thompson, Tennessee Williams, Ian Fleming, Dorothy Parker, John Cheever… The list goes on and on. Prominent on that roll call is, of course, William Faulkner. For these legendary writers, it became de rigueur to drink, often to excess. Fitzgerald noted that for the American writer, "the hangover became a part of the day as well allowed-for as the Spanish siesta." Yet this affliction—er, condition—among writers goes back to ancient times. The great poet Horace observed that "No poems can please nor live long which are written by water drinkers." RELATED: Introducing the I-65 to 30A Podcast Historical marker describing William Faulkner's home, Rowan Oak. (OneSouthernMedia/2016) Faulkner is one of the greatest writers of this generation, penning such classics as The Sound and the Fury, As I Lay Dying, Light in August, Sanctuary, Pylon, Absalom, Absalom!. He won the Nobel Prize for Literature in 1949 and twice won a Pulitzer Prize for A Fable, and again in 1963 (posthumously) for The Reivers. He was born in New Albany, Mississippi, a small town not far from Oxford, where he lived most of his adult life. Faulkner personified [...]

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Annie McFarland, Piper Lou’s Director of Awesome

2021-09-23T08:57:45-05:00September 23rd, 2021|Southern Americana Podcast|

Annie McFarland is AWESOME. At least that's part of the job title she chose after starting working with the online retailer, Piper Lou. https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/southernamericana/Annie_MacFarland.mp3 RELATED: A Letter to My Daughter On Her 18th Birthday Piper Lou is based in North Carolina and formalized the brand in 2016. To say the company loves to promote "snarky and fun" is an understatement. When the company placed an ad on an online job board, Annie answered. Her self-appointed title as "Director of Awesome" is a reflection of Annie's infectious personality. Piper Lou Collection's Annie McFarland. (Piper Lou/2020) Annie grew up in Minnesota and lived in California before moving to Florida. After enduring the loss of her husband and beating a cancer diagnosis, Annie found her calling by promoting Piper Lou and all the great slogans most of us think but would never write on our tumbler or t-shirt. After discovering Piper Lou and ordering a cap benefitting Nashville's tornado relief efforts in 2020, I noticed Annie's hilarious social media posts. I knew recording a Southern Americana podcast episode with her would be fun. It took me over six months to run down this bundle of energy, and our episode didn't disappoint. After all, how many people are willing to talk about the sex chair they recently ordered. Along with [...]

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Ordinary Southerners Perform Extraordinary Tasks

2022-01-30T20:30:30-06:00August 3rd, 2020|Southern Lifestyle|

Southerners are a special breed of people, and it's not uncommon to find ordinary people perform extraordinary tasks. There are many reasons why Tennessee is called the Volunteer State. In difficult times, Tennesseans have a reputation for rising to the challenge of assisting others. The first half of 2020 has provided ample opportunities to lend a helping hand. RELATED: A Letter For My Son On His 18th Birthday Rarely a day goes by without news of a celebrity or famous person performing a vital function. These include donating money, hosting an online concert for a charity, or pitching in to help those impacted by Nashville's tornado or the global coronavirus pandemic. We certainly appreciate their extraordinary assistance! Helping others is what makes Southerners unique How Southerner's Help Others What about the people who help neighbors or even total strangers? There are countless stories, and we wish we knew them all. Here are a few examples of some extraordinary endeavors: A group of friends in Williamson County stepped up to help a struggling singer/songwriter with necessities. They provided food, clothes, and blankets when the camper he was living in collapsed. With their generosity, he was able to bring his wife and children here from California. (Several individuals in and around Leiper's Fork, TN and led by Dawn [...]

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Everyone Wants to Be Loved; Everyone Needs Hope

2019-10-15T19:47:37-05:00September 12th, 2019|Southern Lifestyle|

Everyone wants to be loved. Everyone. No higher proof of a creator, a god, our God, exist. Because we were created with such ultimate love, we yearn for the same.  Everyone needs hope. Moving forward with neither seems impossible. Love  A few months ago, I sat in a Sunday School class and listened as others discussed the day’s lesson. I don’t recall the topic, but when I chose to interject my thoughts, the first words I uttered were, “Everyone wants to be loved.” I believe this from the depths of my soul. The problem is many times we levy self-imposed restrictions on how we give and receive love. We receive God’s love when it’s on our terms, especially when it’s convenient and meets our needs. When our selfish desires take precedence, we ignore His gift as if it had never existed. Thankfully for us, God’s love is unconditional; it remains intact in spite of our poor choices. RELATED: A Letter For My Son On His 18th Birthday When it comes to how we give and receive love, an asterisk or warning label is often necessary. Sure, we all want to be loved, but mainly by those that we love or want to love. There have been times in my life when others loved me or tried to, and [...]

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Senator Doug Henry: A Southern Gentleman’s Southern Gentleman

2021-06-20T14:04:27-05:00March 6th, 2017|Current Events|

Two years ago, I conceived the idea for OneSouthernMan as a way to highlight and showcase the lifestyle and interest of gentlemen who adore the South and all it has to offer. I wasn’t thinking of any single person when I imagined how to personify an image on the website. I did consider a compilation of traits I believed characterized the ideal “Southern Gentleman.” It turns out that “ideal” Southern gentleman could have been Tennessee State Senator Douglas Henry. RELATED: Seersucker, How to Wear the South's Classic Fabric Senator Henry passed away late Sunday evening at the age of 90 in his Nashville home surrounded by family and friends. He achieved many honors, one of the most notable being the longest-serving member of the Tennessee General Assembly. He was elected to the House of Representatives in 1954 and the State Senate in 1970. He served until 2014 when the demographics of his district began to exceed the boundaries of his bipartisanship and tremendous knowledge of state government. His ability to forge relationships with people of all walks was legendary. In 1995 when I was the State Chairman of the Tennessee Young Republicans, we set out to challenge any Democrat we believed might be vulnerable. Here was this older Democrat Senator who lived and represented the Belle Meade area [...]

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7 Common ‘Food’ Phrases We Use Often

2022-12-29T20:51:19-06:00July 31st, 2016|Southern Lifestyle|

You probably use some of these 7 Common 'food' phrases regularly. But have you ever wondered about their origin? Thing is, they're about food, and here's some background on each from Grammar Girl. RELATED: Best 30a Restaurants In 2022 Today we’re going to talk about idioms that come from foods. We'll take a peek into history, traveling back to ancient Rome. Some of these foods may be more appetizing than others: We cover everything from cake to liver. 1. Take it with a Grain of Salt Our first food idiom is to take it with a grain of salt, which means to accept something but to be somewhat skeptical of the information. We all know that salt improves food taste, but perhaps you don't know that the expression to take it with a grain of salt originated with a recipe for an antidote to poison. [2] Ancient Roman author Pliny the Elder, who lived from 23 to 79 AD, [3] wrote an encyclopedic work titled Natural History in the year 77. He tells the story of a Roman general, Pompey, who encountered a ruler named Mithridates VI. [4] This king was famous for building up his immunity to poison, and Pliny reports on the king's recipe for his antidote. The last line of this recipe read, “to be taken fasting, plus a grain of salt.” [2] [...]

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Spreading the Gospel of Whiskey: The Charleston Brown Water Society

2023-11-27T18:29:29-06:00July 8th, 2016|Eats & Drinks|

"Brown Water," also known as whiskey, bourbon, rye, scotch and rum is popular in the South and there's not a better city than Charleston to enjoy all the favors. Meet the Charleston Brown Water Society. Let’s start with a Venn diagram, shall we? Not all brown water is bourbon, but all bourbon is brown water. How about another? The Charleston Brown Water Society doesn’t only drink bourbon, but they do drink more bourbon than the other brown waters. Still with me? Then class is over, and let’s toast to that. RELATED: How to Score Premium Allocated Bourbon The Charleston Brown Water Society formed in 2013 to foster the knowledge and appreciation of whiskey among its members and to promote the availability of good whiskey in Charleston, South Carolina, and beyond. Through well-connected culinary members and its bi-annual events—Bourbon Hour during the Charleston Wine + Food Festival and the Annual BBQ Invitational—the society has gained a bit of a reputation through the years as wild whiskey-drinking men who throw epic parties. But it’s not all about whiskey, and its membership isn’t all men. “Sure, we certainly can sit around and drink some whiskey,” said Roderick Weaver, one of the founding fathers of the society, the former director of cocktail and spirits at Husk Restaurant and now spirits advisor for the newly opened Lewis Barbecue. “But [...]

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